i have never had stick straight hair and i have known this for a long time, but i have never really done anything about it. i always style my hair or wear it in a ponytail/bun. my hair straightens easily with the use of a flat iron and it curls easily when i use hot rollers or an iron. but i never wear my hair "naturally".
i can not wash and go unless i plan on wearing my hair up. my hair is generally a bit frizzy too so that is fun and everything.
i have always loved all things hair. ever since i was a little kid! i would put barrettes in my mom's hair while we watched tv as a family. i have been asked by friends to do their hair for special events, weddings, dances, and just because. i love hair.
recently i have been trying to wear my hair in its natural state, but it hasn't been looking so hot. so i started doing some research and let me tell you i have found out a ton of information and realized just how little i actually know about hair.
first off let me say that apparently most shampoos contain sulfates. a sulfate is the chemical that makes the shampoo lather and sulfates are also used to cut grease. it is used not only in beauty products but in dish soap, engine degreasers, floor cleaners and car wash soaps. now i don't know about you but the thought of washing my hair with an engine degreaser freaks me out!!
now about six or so months ago i started using deva curl no-poo and one-condition. my decision to do this was pretty much on a whim. it was on sale at a local store and it advertised it was for wavy hair so i bought it. (yes i am an impulse beauty product buyer!)
this shampoo is meant to be used by a certain method called the curly girl method. i didn't know that when i bought it and i used it like a normal shampoo which was a mistake.
last week i purchased the book "curly girl" by lorraine massey. it is all about the celebration of curls and natural hair. massey explains how our hair fibers are similar to wool. she talks about how we would never wash a wool or cashmere sweater with a normal detergent. we would find a soft detergent and be very careful through the whole process in order to preserve the fabric. using just any shampoo on our head is like using just any detergent on a fine sweater. sulfates strip our hair of natural oils and makes it dry, frizzy and lifeless. now we can use a whole host of products that contain silicones to smooth the flyways down, but the only way to clean the silicones out of our hair is to once again use a harsh shampoo with sulfates which will make our hair dry and the vicious circle continues and we are never happy with our hair.
and this is where the curly girl method come in to play. in this method you eliminate all sulfates and silicones from your hair care routine. since i already have sulfate free shampoo and conditioner i was all set to start this! but the first step is to do one final sulfate shampoo to cleanse out all silicones and product build up. i hated doing this to my hair since i now knew what i was actually putting on my hair. ewwww! but i did it and let my hair dry naturally and brushed it out. here are a few photos of what it looked like.
so you can see from the photo on the left that my hair is definitely not straight but it's kind of out of control and i would never wear it out like that in public! on the right you see the front of my hair and the crown if flat and the waves are just crazy and well not good!
you can also see that the front of my hair is longer then the back. back in july i cut off over 16 inches and donated my hair to pantene beautiful lengths. i got it cut into a reverse long bob. i loved it but i really only cut my hair that short so that i could donate more. so i am growing it back out, but in the process it looks very funky because the front is longer then the back. i am not sure what to do about this so i just haven't cut it! here is my hair before i cut it all off:
so you can see even at waist length my hair was still not stick straight but it was not in great condition at all!
but anyways back to today. i am starting out on using the curly method and i am very excited to see how my hair is transformed. i have read and seen a lot of amazing transformations so i hope mine is equally exciting! i will be updating what exactly i am doing as well as updates as the months go on.
have any of you tried the curly girl method? did it work for you? did you know what sulfates actually are? does that bother you? do you have curly hair but fight it daily? comment and let me know!